The Key to Relationships
Dr. Shelly Gable's research at UCLA shows that the key to great relationships (romantic, social and work) is celebrating what is right in the relationship rather than focusing on what is wrong.
Specifically, the key to a good relationship is not how you respond when they come home with a complaint, rather, how do you respond to them when they come home with a victory?
We can respond to someone on two levels.
1. The energy you bring – which can be either active or passive.
2. The impact you have – constructive or destructive.